Amanda's 101 in 1001 days!

#43 complete - Geocaching

2011-04-02T12:55:00.000-07:00

I was looking for something fun to do on the last day of Spring Break, that was not too time/labor intensive and was inexpensive or FREE....looking over my 101 in 1001 days list I realized that the boys and I could check out geocaching!

What is Geocaching? Here is the entry from Wikipedia "Geocaching is an outdoor sporting activity in which the participants use a Global Positioning System (GPS) receiver or other navigational techniques to hide and seek containers, called "geocaches" or "caches", anywhere in the world. A typical cache is a small waterproof container containing a logbook where the geocacher enters the date they found it and signs it with their established code name. Larger containers such as plastic storage containers (tupperware or similar) or ammo boxes can also contain items for trading, usually toys or trinkets of little value. Geocaching is often described as a "game of high-tech hide and seek," sharing many aspects with benchmarking, trigpointing, orienteering, treasure-hunting, letterboxing, and waymarking."

There is also a cute short video explaining it at http://www.geocaching.com/. We used the iphone app to geocache with for the first time. There is a free and a 9.99 version. I paid for the app so I cannot speak for the free version. We used the compass function and the map function. When we got down to the site the topographical map and the satellite map were very helpful!

I knew that this cache had treasure to trade, so we brought Jibbitz for Crocs to leave and the boys each picked out two treasures. I highly recommend caching with kids, they loved the hunt and did not complain about the walk at all and we went almost 2 miles there and 2 miles back!

#27 post to blog for thirty days, DONE!

2011-02-13T20:18:00.000-08:00

I chose to focus on blogging everyday for a period to get myself in the habit and to see where it took me...did I enjoy exploring various topics or staying to just one or two, did I find it a productive creative outlet, did I build a foundation of followers?

The best thing about this was that I did find that I had material to write about. I tried to vary it up between what I want to share with others as far as advice, posts that were purley humor or creative outlets, etc. I did find that it helped to have various posts in draft form. I could write about something that was on my mind, but I maybe didn't have time to find the right graphic or links. Drafts in progress helped me to be ready to post something daily even when I was busy.

Since I completed the goal I have continued to post every few days. Last week was a killer at work and I knew that meant I would not have the energy or time at night to post.

If you have not read my blog: Raising Tomorrow's Men...that is the blog I posted to daily in Dec/Jan.

http://raisingtomorrowsmen.blogspot.com/

Progress....where to do I need to focus!

2011-02-13T20:11:00.000-08:00

50% 5 out of 10 in Health and Body
35% 7 out of 20 in Mind and Creativity
50% 2 out of 4 in Spirit and Wellbeing
34% 7 out of 21 in Family and Children (but many are ongoing goals)
18% 2 out of 11 in Community and Service
41% 7 out of 17 in Home and Cleaning
34% 3 out of 9 in Finances and Future
14% 1 out of 7 in Love and Marriage

34 out of 99 (two are closing goals) = 34%

Of course some of these are things to do monthly for a year, so they are not concluded yet...but it does point to the Love/marriage, and the Community/Sevice categories.

#22 progress:another new recipe

2011-02-13T20:08:00.000-08:00

I was in the mood for CAKE! So since we've been trying to try new recipes....I found this one!
"Pig Pickin Cake" - I know I have had this before at Southern Pot Luck Dinners, just didn't know that that was what it was called. I think I remember it as Dump Cake, no matter the name, it is a light and fluffy treat, with just a little extra sweetness!

I tend to use the fruit with the light syrup to avoid the extra calories and sugar, but it still tastes good. Some people make it as a layer cake, but I tend to just do 9x13 if a cake is just for family, and for nothing special.

Well this was gooooood! Again, forgot to take a picture, perhaps tomorrow!
http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/2011/01/pig-cake/

My favorite part of this blog post from Pioneer Woman:

"Next, swipe your index finger along the beater and cover said finger with batter. Lick. Close your eyes. Moan. Then go wash your hands with soap and water. Repeat as necessary. (Note: please don’t do the gluttonous finger-swiping-and-licking thing if you’re older, or pregnant, or are immuno-compromised. It’s a raw egg thing.)"

Now that is my kind of recipe!

P.S. if you have never had pig pickin cake, just google it, thre are a ton of recipes and they are all almost the same....and all good!

#22 progress: new recipe

2011-01-30T15:42:00.000-08:00

Another new recipe in the Sauer house is a new banana bread recipe...click over to my other blog to get the recipe. Raising Tomorrow's Men: banana bread post

#14 Blog Button Done!

2011-01-22T19:56:00.000-08:00

It just happened that as I worked on my blog posting for 30 days (goal #27) I realized that it was a good time to work on the button I needed for my blog. As I add followers etc. and develop an identity for my blog I had to take the time to create a button.

I followed a great tutorial from Musings of a Housewife and created my button for free at Picnik.com.

Then I realized that I had only done part of what I needed. I needed a box with html code where other bloggers could pick up my button. I found another great tutorial, this time from Mommy Bits. This one seemed confusing, but I followed the steps and it worked!

So check out the new button and the blog side bar with the blog button code box!

#25 - Get Ready, Get Set, WRITE

2011-01-18T23:15:00.000-08:00

Ok, I set the goal of writing and submitting a professional article. I have to admit, that as competitive as I am, I of course will probably keep trying until I succeed! The avenue I have chosen is the magazine "Educational Leadership." It is a publication that I respect and the writing style is one that I think would fit mine. I also attended a workshop several summers ago at the National Board Workshop that was put on by ASCD and it was titled, writing for ASCD. They gave hits and pointers that in reality are all available on their website, but mostly it gave me the confidence to try! They do pick several "joe shmos" for each edition, but they also give feedback if your article is close to being selected and may ask you to revise it!

The upcoming topics were just released and it looks like there are at least three that I would be skilled and interested in writing. There is one on PLCs, one on STEM, and also one on learning from the world - which might tie in with our new Chinese connection and future visit to China.

Oh I got excited too soon...those were topics for ASCD express which is an online newsletter for every two weeks....hmmm but that would be a great place to start and the topics did get me excited!

When looking there are two Ed. Leadership topics that would appeal to me
Coaching related to the school administrator position and one on interventions that work special online edition....but a Feb. 14th deadline!

Well....I will update you soon on what I select, but it looks like it is time to tackle #25!

#8 5k complete!

2011-01-09T10:42:00.000-08:00

Yesterday, I completed my first 5K! Yeah!!!! I didn't do it at break neck speed and I didn't jog or run, but I did it. Now I know the distance - how it feels. I was worried I would push too hard and then not be able to maintain the pace or be hurting later. I was with a friend who needed a little slower pace, so I kept pushing her, but I therefore still was not at my best. That is ok, it was good times with a friend and now I know that I could go faster, even jog some!

Here's to the next 5k on my way to getting the physical me back!

I don't have a pic yet - it is on a friend's phone, but I post one when I have it!

over 1/2 way there! #27

2011-01-09T10:36:00.000-08:00

So far I have posted for 18 days in a row (not counting Christmas Day - we all get that off) as part of my goal to post on my blog for 30 days consecutively. Why 30 days? Well for one it would increase readership, but also for an outlet through writing and to create a habit. If I am used to posting everyday, then I can after the 30 days at least post 2-3 times a week!

I even attempted this through one of busiest times at home and work. The key is to realize that you can write and pre-schedule the post to be posted. That way if I know I am going to have a busy evening I can post early or if I have ideas I can start working on them a day or two ahead of time!

So if you have never read my other blog: http://raisingtomorrowsmen.blogspot.com/, click over and read a few posts :)

Another Goal revamp

2011-01-02T20:09:00.000-08:00

As I read through my goals written two years ago...I have found another one I am going to edit. Yes, I make up my own rules as I go along...but I am not taking down a goal because I will not complete it, but because it is no longer relevant to my life!

When I look at #14, I see that I wrote to get my notary to assist my husband in his business. Well we have moved to a much smaller house in a much more crowded neighborhood, in a different state and my husband is no longer involved in fixing up wrecks as a business. - this makes the goal two years after writing it, not relevant. So... I am going to take the liberty to eliminate it and add another goal.

As of 1/1/11 the goal #14: Get notary cert. is removed and I am adding in the same category of "Mind & Creativity" a new goal : design a blog button for my "Raising Tomorrow's Men" blog. This will mean learning how, designing and posting the button.

#8 5k - scheduled!

2011-01-02T19:19:00.000-08:00

#8 - Walk or Run a 5K has been scheduled! I am completing the Quaker Oatmeal 5K with a few friends in Lafayette, CO this Saturday. I will be walking, but at a steady brisk pace. This is only the start towards running a 5k. I don't ever remember liking running, but I am going to get into the habit to help my weight and fitness goals.

I am also scheduled for the Warrior Dash in August. Hoping to run most of it, since it is broken up with other fun challenges! Should be a blast!

Will post after Saturday with a picture!

Missed an opportunity to complete #95 - NFL game. We were going to the Broncos game today, but we were not prepared for the cold and it was going to be a brutal one! We skipped it and went on a lunch and movie date instead!

#22 progress: new recipe

2010-12-28T17:59:00.001-08:00

Ok, I tried this one before...but trying again for one new recipe per month.

Tonight we tried the Zesty Slow Cooker Chicken from allrecipes.com. It was a hit! Everyone loved it. I blogged about it here over on my Raising Tomorrow's Men blog.

Direct link to recipe

#56 - Update Community Outreach 7 out of 10

2010-12-27T09:56:00.000-08:00

These started as participating in our church, The Cove's Outreach Programs, but since we moved...I am still trying to find ways for the boys to give back.

Normally we collect food for a holiday dinner and donate to a family in need from the school in which I work. This year, I didn't have a read on that quite yet so we took the last two names off of the Operation Santa tree at the bank from the Erie Optimist Club. They were girls, teenage girls, but the boys did suprisingly well shopping for girls!

We shopped, wrapped and delivered gifts to the Optimist Club. We then took several hours on Saturday morning to help the Optimist Club sort, add and wrap additional presents as part of the Toys for Tots Operation. It was a great time and lesson for the boys.

Another activity we did was Operation Osprey where the boys worked with their cub scout troop to clean up around Thomas Reservoir. They picked up trash, weeded and placed mulch around the trees. It was a great community outreach for them since the lake is in our neighborhood!

#96 Complete - blog for hubby

2010-12-26T16:37:00.001-08:00

It is ongoing, and at this time is not longer a business, but it has been a project and I will continue to add to it for him.

Flash's Hondas and Rods!

#51- complete - Host Thanksgiving!

2010-11-27T09:38:00.001-08:00

Well, it wasn't a big crowd since we moved to Denver, but Mom made the trip, so officially it was our turn and we hosted Thanksgiving. Thomas was an especially big help making pigs in the blankets for apppitizers and he also operated the Foley Food Mill for homemade mashed potatoes. We shared what we were thankful for at dinner and I only had to say "That is potty talk, not appropriate for the dinner table" twice!

#36 family nights in progress

2010-11-27T09:16:00.000-08:00

Of course we do these here and there, but I wanted this goal to be about doing it regularly and purposefully!

November:

Ryan's Concert Night: We went together as a family to hear Ryan in his holliday concert. He is in the upper right...beginning to hide behind the girl next to him. As the concert went on, he just about disappeared behind her! Thomas loved yelling "Bravo!" after each song and Jordan liked yelling Rye-Rye when he saw his brother on the camera screen.

Denver Aquarium - We took advantage of the Friday night specials at the Aquarium and enjoyed dinner and the exhibits on the Friday after Thanksgiving. It was great to get out on a night I didn't want to cook, there were no crowds since most were home resting from Black Friday shopping....hmm this might become a tradition - family night out on the night after Thanksgiving!

#44 Take Family to the Circus - complete!

2010-10-09T19:08:00.001-07:00

Today the boys and I went to the Ringling Bros. Circus in Denver! It was great! The only thing missing was Chris. He had to stay home to wait for the washer repairman from Sears.

Oh well, the kids and I had a blast. We had never been to the circus. Chris had been as a kid but remembered it as boring. We loved it. The boys especially loved the motorcycle on the tightrope and the 7 motorbikes in the steel ball. Jordan loved the elephants :) He kept saying "Elephants where are you?" He roared at the tigers, which was doubly (if that is a word) cute! Cotton candy with big hats, lemonade, popcorn and a great show! Glad I had this on my list and glad we went!

#44 complete!

Progress

2010-09-12T12:18:00.001-07:00

28/101 yikes not even 1/3 of the way there with a little more than one year to go!

#48 Sleep out with the boys in a tent - Done!

2010-09-12T11:04:00.000-07:00

I thought it would be at the camper or in the backyard...but instead we signed up and attended the Erie Outdoor Adventure! The new town we live in: Erie, CO had a 1st annual campout. We were one of about 150 campsites in the community park. The boys participated in the 9/11 salute before the movie on the big screen. The boys had a great camp out even if we almost froze! Jordan was cranky, so he and Chris stayed home (that way Chris could watch the race on tv too!)

#50 Visit Dad and Visit Nana - complete

2010-04-08T15:49:00.000-07:00

This was written as one goal orginally because they lived in close proximity in PA and I live in NC. Due to my father being in the hospital, I made a quick emergency visit in late July. To be honest, due to crazy family drama, etc. that I would rather not rehash, the visit was very draining and it was hard to see my father in such poor health. I went on to visit my mom at her lake house and then stopped in to see my dad again on my way back to NC...thus I never made it over to see Nana.

This past week despite having just three days when I was not on the road, I made the 2.5 hour journey to visit Nana. I took all three of my boys and mom came too. It was great to see her and we had only planned a short visit so that my boys would not wear her out. I should have known that Nana would have enough spunk left to not have let it phase her! We cut our visit short to take the boys on a train ride in Strasburg and I could tell she wanted us to stay longer.

Hoping to squeeze in another visit soon, but my mom is going to take the boys again this summer. I always regretted putting off making the drive when I was on college breaks and then had my grandpa pass away...I am glad that I got to visit Nana again and hope to get a few more visits in too! She will be 96 this month!

Miss you Grandpa, Nana is doing great. She misses you too, but Art is taking good care of her for now.

Here is Nana, hoping my mom emails me the pic of her with my boys soon!

#40 Finally Begins...Chapter Books

2010-03-22T18:31:00.000-07:00

I kept meaning to get started on this....Ryan and I would read chapter books such as Magic Tree House, etc. but Thomas had a hard time attending without pictures on all of the pages. I waited until he was a year older and ready to listen and participate.

Our first book is...."The Diary of a Wimpy Kid." Yes, I know it is not a classic! This was the first book I would catch Ryan reading independantly. He motored through it almost to the point I wondered if he really read it, or just would read the cartoons. He has since found ways to get the additional books in the series...even trading books with friends. The more he read the series the more I felt left out because I could not discuss it with him.

I have heard a few parents make derogative remarks about the serious saying that the characters are crass and talk about inappropriate things. This partially made me want to read it more, in order to find out if it was true. All I knew is that my "all boy" little man loved the books and to be honest, he is a boy and likes using words like butt and fart....

The movie coming out gave me another incentive to get going...the boys both want to see the movie, but saying that we are going to read and discuss it first helped to give a purpose to a reading and a timeframe.

We started tonight and the book is really cute! Thomas followed along fine and Ryan even read some pages aloud. So far, yes he has used the word fart and butt...but come on my boys are 5 & 7...they think it is hysterical!

Here's to creating a love of reading at an early age!

#86 $1,000 in emergency fund

2010-02-25T16:45:00.000-08:00

Ok, I know experts say 3 months take home, and since the economy tanked they are saying it is more like 6 or 9 months in reserve....but you have to start somewhere!

When my husband was laid off Dec. 3rd, we immediately realized that we did not have enough savings....it was time to start cutting back and putting money back in savings.

This milestone marks $1,000 in our emergency fund! I think we will do well with not touching it, but the hard part will be adding to it and not touching that!

Goal #86 - $1,000 in emergency fund is complete!

Progress on #67 : one box filed/shredded

2010-02-16T16:43:00.000-08:00

Ok, we have the file cabinet and we will be moving this summer...so time to get moving on goal number 67 "File one box of paper per month until finished." I know you are so excited about that goal!!!! sorry it is not more adventurous like climb Mt. Everest or complete and underwater basket weaving project, but this is reality people and we have too much PAPER!!!

Box number 1 = complete! of course it was probably the smallest box and the easiest, but it counts! It contained old checkbooks and checkbooks of the duplicate checks. I saved the last four years and filed them in a small box, and then ran the shredder!!!!

It was amazing how much fun kids can have running a shredder. take a breath, yes they were taught how to do it properly first and closely supervised.

One box down, I don't even know how many more to go!

Fingerpainting Fun #54

2010-02-06T09:50:00.000-08:00

Well we took a snow day to cross one item off of the family list...fingerpaint with the kids! We now have tons of art to hang and to send to the grandparents! We might cut some of the larger ones and use as part of Valentine's Day cards. Here are some pics of the the boys painting. Daddy's old Red Bull shirts made great smocks!

Progress on #41 birthday/anniversary calendar

2010-01-24T08:54:00.000-08:00

It did read create and use a birthday/anniversary calendar....

I found many templates online and was getting ready to print one and have it bound at Staples... but then I came across a beautiful one that had been donated to the Craft Hope Haiti site through Etsy and all of the proceeds benefit Haitian relief through Doctors without Borders!

Here is the crafter's site who donated the item. www.mothballcharlie.etsy.com

It arrived in the mail yesterday and it is perfect! Now I just have to get it filled in and use it!

If you want to create your own, here is one from Microsoft that has pretty graphics. - click here

Sewing Machine - Ta Da! #18 DONE

2010-01-22T11:45:00.000-08:00

Ok, I admit I was feeling guilty that I hadn't crossed anything off of my list lately, so I have been looking for an easy one! You would think it was easy, so I don't know why it took me over 365 days on this list to do it!

I bought a great used sewing machine table at the Habitat Store the other day and put it in our computer room/office... and today I hauled the box (it was lighter than I remember) of the sewing machine my mother gave me out of our closet. It is way cooler than I remember too!

I have to admit I consider myself a tech savvy girl, but sewing machines have come a long way. I think I felt more comfortable with the model that is hanging in the sewing machine table and looks like it is from the 50's, but I bet this one is going to be way easier!

Now I have to pick out a project quick so I can get over my fear of the new machine :)

Women change their mind - don't they?!

2010-01-02T17:13:00.001-08:00

WOW....one year done...366 days of the 1001 done....

As we head into a new year and I review my list of 101 things for 1001 days, which I started one year ago, I realize that I want to change some things. Women change their mind frequently, isn't that the stereotype?

I frame this by saying that I am not changing these because I they are things that are no longer realistic for 1001 days, that would defeat the purpose. These are just items that one year later, don't fit or I am not passionate about. It maybe that I did not think too much about them as I wrote the list a year ago.

Here they are...the items that are changing and will be part of my "updated" list of goals.

#35 - take a self defense class...don't know why I listed this, because now I have no interest in ever doing this! hmmm....

New #35 - send/receive 5 postcards from postcrossing. I love postcards and collected them growing up. My grandmother sent me a postcard a week for all four years in college! It will also help me work on my procrastination and do things I say I want to do...sometimes I am bad at following through!

#23 - Create/Give Encourage mints to my 13 employees.... this is no longer appropriate since I am in a different job - I was supporting 13 people in difficult jobs,across the school system, now I am an assistant principal.

New Goal #23 Take the kids on a train trip! I love traveling, the kids love trains...I also remember with much fondness the train trip I took from VA to FLA as a child. Of course I think this one might end up being just a day trip, but a train trip nonetheless.

#61 - host couples game night - modifying to say host family game night. It is just where we are in life. We would not host this without the kids :)

So there it is, three items changing...which is not bad from a list of 101!

Here is to completing my 101 goals!!

#66 Buy a File Cabinet! DONE!

2009-12-28T10:13:00.000-08:00

19/101 Goals Complete!

It may seem like a small thing...but not to us! We have a small two drawer that is full and then many boxes with paperwork in them. I was tired of the clutter it caused by using closet space for the boxes. Plus, when you need to find something and have no idea where it is, it is very frustrating!

I had been looking on craigslist, but at Goodwill yesterday we found a heavy duty metal four drawer file cabinet. I sent Chris back to get it today and the biggest success was getting him to agree to give up garage space to put the file cabinet out there!

Now I can start the next goal of filing at least one box of the old stuff per month! YEAH!

#57 101 items to charity - DONE

2009-12-23T04:35:00.000-08:00

18/101 Goals Complete!

This mostly included cleaning out closets and taking clothes to Goodwill. It also including getting rid of old cell phones & chargers to organizations that help women in abusive situations. We also gave left over dog food to the animal shelter when we were between dogs.

The point was helping others while reducing clutter in our lives!

#85 Track Spending for 90 Days... DONE!

2009-12-22T09:22:00.000-08:00

17/101 goals complete....
Thank you Mint.com! Not only have we tracked every nickel and dime online for the last 90 days, by going in and attaching categories to everything we have been able to use the data!

The data told us that we are spending more on gas than we thought or had budgeted for! That was the number one hole in our pocket that we didn't realize was there. We would always say, "where did the money go?" now we know! It has led me to make sure I am streamlining errand runs and has also made us reconsider getting Chris a beater car. A car to run places or to take to work. His truck eats gas!

Another category we are able to track better is food/groceries. We can see that we are hitting the drive thrus more than we thought. We don't "eat out" that much, but the quick stops are adding up to too much. We also saw that although we knew how much our groceries were costing us, we had not figured in the small runs to the grocery store for the the things we forgot...toilet paper, milk, dog food.

Now that we have a better grip on where our money is going, we can start working on some of our other financial goals: SAVING & PAYING DOWN DEBT!

I recommend http://www.mint.com/ & http://nextsteps.iwasbrokenowimnot.com/

Update on Progress

2009-12-19T12:56:00.001-08:00

Yikes, it has almost been 365 days!
Progress thus far....
16/101 goals complete - - - 6% complete

Most progress in Health & Body, and Spirit & Wellbeing categories
Need progress in Love & Marriage, and Finances & Future

Health & Body - 4 out of 10 goals complete.... 40%

Mind and Creativity - 4 out of 20 goals complete.....20%

Spirit & Wellbeing - 2 out of 5 goals complete....40%

Family & Children - 2 out of 19 goals complete....11%

Service & Community - 1 out of 11 goals complete......9%

Home & Cleaning - 3 out of 17 goals complete......18%

Finances & Future - 0 out of 10 complete

Love & Marriage - 0 out of 7 complete

#78 Dining Room Done!

2009-12-19T12:43:00.000-08:00

I'd post a real pic, but I can't find the cord to my digital camera. It is nothing to look at, we have hand me down furniture...which is not attractive, but at least it is not piled with boxes, junk etc. Looking at my list cone year approaching, I was embarrassed to see that my dining room was still not done. I would make progress and then something would cause new stuff to be dumped in the dining room.

Now the key will be keeping it that way. I will personally take down whomever "puts" anything in the dining room!!! Of course now that the dining room is clean, it makes the computer room/guest room look like a dump....geez it will never end!

#24 Goal Complete! One book per month

2009-12-18T17:21:00.000-08:00

I remember when I wrote this goal. It was because I realized that I missed reading. I had gotten so busy and so tired that I had forgotten to make time for reading. Reading is one way in which I relax and get some me time.

I am happy to say that I have read at least one "fun" book per month this year. Some month I even read two or three! Mission accomplished: I have made the habit of reading a habit again!

Oct. Books:

You've Been Warned by James Patterson

It was a quick read in that Patterson Books always move at a quick pace. I also go involved with the main character, but... it is a psychological suspense book. To me that means it was just a little too weird. A little magic is ok, but sometimes books go too far and get "out there" or strange.

I love his Alex Cross series and the Women's Murder Club...but sometimes I am not liking his others - of course he has some winners so I end up reading a bunch of them.

8th Confession: Women's Murder Club Series - James Patterson

I loved it of course and read it almost in one day. I can't believe that it is the only episode for the year according to the James Patterson website! The next one, #9, will come out in April 2010.

I love this series and the women in it. I just think that with so much time between episodes/books that it is taking me part of the book, just to remember what is going on in the characters lives.

Nov. Book:

The Memory of Water - Karen White

This was an author I had not read before. It was given to me by an office co-worker with whom I share a taste in books. This was a great book. It is a mystery/romance/family drama. It is set in the low country which I love too. The characters are very deep and I was engrossed in their lives very quickly. It also centers around a child who has gone through a traumatic event.

Great beach read or weekend getaway book!

December...despite the hectic holiday schedule, I actually read this before vacation!

Vision in White - Nora Roberts

I love a good Nora Roberts romance. I have to admit I had had this a few months before cracking it open. I think I had gotten to a point where the Roberts trilogies were too cheesy and predictable. There were always three girls and in each book one would hook up with a man. This one is not different in that sense, but I have to admit...it was great! It had character depth, family drama, friendship and love. It was not overly cheesy and did not have too much predictability with the future books. There are four friends and I know each will end up hooking up in a book, but this one left me ready for more....I devoured it and can't wait for the next one: Bed of Roses - which came out in Oct. something to ask Santa for!

Back in the Saddle Again - #10

2009-12-16T17:25:00.001-08:00

I knew it would just take getting back in the routine again. Trying to take care of four others in this family unfortunately has led to me not getting to the dentist on a regular basis.

I was not really satisfied with our current dentist. They were not automated in any way...still did everything by paper. Twice this led to insurance mistakes/headaches on our part. The equipment is also very antiquated. I remember at my last visit seeing that the equipment seemed more than just old ... it seemed gunky which make me think it was not clean.

I then did not make my next appt and before I knew it...it had been months since my last visit. When I wrote the health section for this 101 challenge, I knew I had to get back in the saddle again!

Last week I was reviewing my list with the realization that one year had almost gone by...which meant 12 additional months when I had not gone to the dentist - GROSS!!!

I called and made an appt and I am happy to say that I have a new dentist, whom I liked and had a cleaning and x-rays today. I also have my next appt. scheduled.

I am officially back in the saddle/dentist chair again!

#55 Serve on CKC Serving Team! - Done and ongoing!

2009-11-21T09:46:00.000-08:00

I have been serving on the Cove Kids Club Welcome Team for almost a year now. When the church asked he families to help get the new satellite campus up and running in Statesville, my husband and I both decided that although we might occasionally serve or volunteer....since having the kids we had really strayed away from regular service.

We filled out the time commitment card and my husband said he would help with tear-down of the equipment/clean up for two years. I signed up to help with the children's ministry on Sunday morning for one year. I then joined the welcome team that welcomes and logs in the children from infancy through fifth grade for their worship time and class. This was a perfect match for me because I could serve, but still get to attend most of the service with my husband.

It has been a little over a year and I am continuing to serve every other week as I have for the last year. I commend Chris and I for getting back into the swing of regular service to the Lord!

#4 - Multi-vitamin Daily...Goal Complete! New Habit Formed!

2009-11-21T09:20:00.000-08:00

I had posted this goal without saying for how long...the purpose was until it was a daily habit! Well it has been 11 months now and it is a habit! At first I went in spurts where I would forget for a day or two, but then I was definitely over the 80% of the time.

Recently, I had surgery and the specialists recommended Flintstones Complete - At least for awhile. I found that buying a big bottle and taking it daily also helped remind my sons to take theirs!

I now take my vitamin every morning! I was taking the Women's One A Day, but for now I like the Flintstones!

#12 Budget /Financial Class - DONE

2009-11-16T19:09:00.000-08:00

Last night Chris and I attended a financial learning experience. When I initally wrote the goal, I envisioned myself doing a budget class to help our family get control of our finances and save for the future and things we wanted or dreams we had. Our church Life Group had begun a book study of a financial study about money. Then the church itself has done a series on the Gift of Giving. In this economic time the church understood that people are struggling and in order to give above and beyond, they need help getting out from under debt and getting ahead with budgets.

Tonight we attended a learning experience seminar done by Joeseph Sangl. It was 2.5 hours well spent! The best part is that we attended together. This was not a goal I should have written for myself, but should have put in the financial category or marriage category. Now that we have been tracking our spending using Mint.com, we are poised and ready to set goals, change spending habits and get out from under debt.

It wasn't a whole lot I didn't know - my mother has been trying to educate me for years, but something about being fed up and being a team....I think we are ready to put steps in place to move forward.

We set some goals and noted some next steps!

Joseph Sangl's website has many free tools, resources, etc. I encourage you to check it out! Are you tired of being broke? Are you ready to pay for your dreams and not bigger bank buildings? Are you ready to reduce the stress that is related to money in your home? Join us in getting control of our financial future!

(photo by Danilo Rizzuti)

#57 101 items to charity progress

2009-11-14T11:57:00.000-08:00

Working on decluttering our life and being a better steward of God's money and God's things....

This week I filled three trash bags of clothing items from our master closet. It was overrun with clothes. Most were work clothes of Chris'. That made for over 3o items.

We donate our gently used clothes to Goodwill.

Making progress on decluttering and donating - a win, win!

#56 Progress on Church Outreach Projects

2009-11-14T11:48:00.000-08:00

The goal is to complete four each year. For 2009...we just completed our third event!

1. Ryan and I went to the Go Bananas Community Lunch at the NAACP Back to School Rally. We packages lunches for several hundred people and served the meals to them.

2. Another was the Go Bananas Food Drive. We packaged groceries for a needy family according to what they requested and then delivered it to their home.

3. Today Thomas, Ryan, Jordan and I went to the Hands and Feet Day of Serving and helped with lanscaping and cleanup at one of our aging schools.

#31 Join and Attend a Life Group

2009-11-12T15:42:00.000-08:00

We now attend a very large church. They encourage participation in a small group...they call "Life Group." These groups are often formed by being in the same stage in life: married, single, 20's, 30's, 40's etc., but some groups are just "mixed."

My friend Regina had attended several different life groups trying to find the right one. I expressed to her that we had not joined because we would not be able to bring the kids or would need a babysitter. Being a single Mom, Regina was in a similar situation but had family in the area that helped out. As the year went on, Regina decided to start a life group at her house. It would be a group that you could bring your kids and they would play outside or upstairs in the bonus room. We all agreed to hire one of the older kids as a babysitter with each of us paying $5-$7 for a month depending on how many children you had.

Soon this has become a group for families. Our kids play together and can't wait to get to life group. We meet twice a month for Bible study and we take turns bringing snacks. We try and plan one social event per month - sometimes it is a family event or an adult event.

I was not sure if we would really be able to fit this into our busy lifestyle or really enjoy the small group thing....but God works in mysterious ways. This group has become like a family. A group that prays for each other, greets each other at church, sits together, etc. It has become our "LIFE GROUP" !!

I encourage you, if you belong to/or attend a church with small group sessions to check it out. It might take a time or two, or three...or a group, or two, or three....but you might just find your second family!

We now regularly attend and make it a priority in our month, so I am going to say that goal #31 is accomplished!!! We have found where we "fit in" in the puzzle of a large church!

2/3 of the way on goal #85

2009-11-03T05:24:00.000-08:00

Well I fell 0f the wagon on two out of three goals I was working on....we travelled to the beach and therefore consumed fast food on the way in the car (at least it was a happy meal size - chicken nuggets)...and because of recent surgery I have stopped listing on Ebay and will start back up this weekend. Did sell about $87 of items though!

Ok, the one goal I am making constant progress on, thanks to technology is #85:track all expenses for 90 days. I now have 60 days tracked @ mint.com! I am able to go in and catergorize and add notes about every item that comes out of our checking account.

I really like that I can subdivide some purchases. For example if I go to Walmart - yuck - and spend some money on groceries and some on household items, I can divide that line item into two categories. It also helps with cash witdrawls. If I withdrawl $40 and I use $20 to deposit in the kids accounts for lunch, and use the other $20 for fast food or at the pharmacy, then I can subdivide the item. It also has a great memory and if I categorize a certain store, like a BP as gasoline...then it continues to track that location as gasoline. Another example is the check I write for daycare each week. It is always $140 (gulp) and therefore I have marked it for every check that goes out that is exactly $140.00 to be automoatically categorized as childcare. This way I am spending less time each week going in and categorizing items.

At the end of 90 days Chris and I are going to sit down and have a financial summit where we can look at where our money is going and where perhaps we can pare back. I am already seeing that although our gas expenses have greatly decreased with the change of our childcare location, we are still spending a tremendous amount on gas and it might be worth it for Chris to fix up a little car to drive to work rather than drive his truck to work each day!

So if you haven't checked it out...I give my vote to http://www.mint.com/

Other New "In Progress"

2009-10-12T17:56:00.000-07:00

Started over on the No Fast Food for 90 days starting 10/13/09

Started tracking finances for 90 days started last week

Still working on the dining room, but making progress!

#92 Ebay Listings (in progress)

2009-10-12T17:43:00.000-07:00

I am back on the horse again... that is the Ebay selling horse! I make a decent profit on my ebay sales, but it does take time and diligence. My goal #92 is to list an item everyday for 90 days. This will keep me in the rhythm of listing and selling again. I started yesterday and got started with three items. I sold one today and also listed one today. Halloween and pre-Christmas are great selling seasons so I thought it would be the time!

#34 Done! (after multiple attempts!) And a new habit formed!

2009-10-08T17:25:00.000-07:00

Read the daily devotions from church for 90 days....I have been able to instill this as a new habit. I wish I could say that I have been able to really mediate and pray about them daily and dig into the scripture, but some days it was a quick time to focus on the Word and what it means to me and how I could make changes in my life. Either way, it was a daily dose. Some days I used the paper copies that the church hands out on Sunday and I stick inside my Bible when I get home; some days I used the church website which has a link to the scripture quotes, so it didn't matter if I didn't have my personal Bible with me. It was often a great way to refocus my day at work.

Here is the link that I use when I am at work or away from my Bible.
http://www.covechurch.org/devotions

Some say why 90 days? ... it is long enough to create a new "habit"... give it a try!

#83-92 Finances!

2009-10-04T09:30:00.000-07:00

Ok. so I have been slack in the area of beginning on any of my goals for the Finance section. I was doing well on eating out only once per week, but now that I have changed jobs and the kids are back in school I have been eating in the cafeteria...which is not as good as a restaurant, cheaper, but a waste for what I get....

We had tried keeping a spreadsheet starting in July in order for Chris and I to communicate better about money and to track our finances better....but that didn't work either! We use our debit cards almost exclusively and write very few checks, which means the burden is on us to track expenses and also to communicate.

Today, through one of the blogs that I follow: The Mom Creative, I discovered a website to better track our finances. I signed up and have begun....we shall see, but I am hoping (oh no, the hope approach is bad) strike that... I know that it will help me begin to tackle the goals in my finances and future section of my goals. I will keep you posted!

Check out http://www.mint.com !!

#73 Bike!

2009-09-26T08:04:00.000-07:00

Well the goal was getting it back in working order or give it away. It probably just needed new tire inserts....but we will never know :) I let my little munchkins "fix" it and they were having fun with wrenches, etc. The problem was that I did not see it still in the driveway when I went to back out to go to the store! It was a good lesson for the boys on what something will look like if you leave it in the driveway! The tire was totally BENT!

Well that closes #73 because the bike has been given away to the dump! (I know I know that I could have gotten a new wheel and recycled the bike...not a very green moment for me)

#23 - modified craft goal

2009-09-19T17:06:00.000-07:00

Ok, my goal had said to create "Encourage-a-mints" for my 13 employees, especially since their job is one in which they often face the negative and nay-sayers.... BUT....now I have changed jobs!

As an assistant principal, I probably wouldn't have time/money to create these for all the teachers, but I think I might make them for the office staff and a few friends...

I guess it must be close to Christmas if I am starting to get in a crafty mood!
97 DAYS to be exact :)

Here is the link and I hope to get started on them soon!
First step will be to find some pretty jars.

Encourage-mints pic/idea:
http://coleybelle.wordpress.com/2008/01/25/encourage-mints/
More sayings:
http://www.craftsayings.com/sayings/encourage_mints.shtml

#24 one book per month

2009-09-12T17:04:00.000-07:00

I am pretty sure I read more than one (which it is good I am losing track again!) but one book I read in August was Swimsuit by James Patterson. I am a big James Patterson fan, but this one just didn't thrill me. It was interesting to keep me reading it, but I rarely abandon a book. It goes on my "just OK" list.

My September book was one that I happened to pick up myself in either the grocery store or Walmart. I judged the book by the cover :) the cover just drew me in and I thought it would be a good read. I was not disappointed. It was good in the sense of getting really engrossed in the characters. It was never slow, but it was a little predictable and cheesy. Sometimes you just need a good summer love story. If you want to escape and read a realistic love story, then check out On Mystic Lake by Kristin Hannah.

#40 Read one chapter book per month w/boys

2009-09-12T16:57:00.000-07:00

Again, this goal might be slightly modified for now...

Ryan and I began reading the Magic Tree House Books. He had read a few at the end of last year for school work, but this summer it has become our special thing. Thomas has begun listening, but he would still rather read traditional books with me that have more pics....which is fine too.

Right now we are reading #6 Afternoon on the Amazon

Here's to starting a life long love of reading!

#50 Visit Nana and Dad

2009-09-12T16:47:00.000-07:00

Well... I accomplished half of this goal. My brother called in early August saying that my father was back in the hospital (nothing new) but that he was unresponsive and they may have to implement his living will. Of course he reminded me that he has done this before due to the MERSA infection in his hip-replacement. My brother fully expected him to be joking about the hospital food the next day.

Something told me, I needed to go. I left the next morning with baby in tow. Just as we thought my father regained conciousness, but I kept on and arrived in PA. I spent sometime with him and then visited with my brother and mother. I stopped in again and spoke with him before leaving for NC and said some key things that needed to be said.

My father passed away the following week of a heart attack. As you can see the trip was on my list for April...and I didn't go. Thank goodness I didn't procrastinate on the trip any longer. Some items on the 101 list should be a priority!

I should have visited Nana while I was there, but I am going to make it back up there soon.

1/2 of goal 50 is accomplished.

Rest in Peace Dad.

#68 - 50 books gone!

2009-07-25T07:04:00.000-07:00

ok, so I modified this goal, but the end result was the same...50 books gone! It said swap out 50 books on paperbackswap.com - I have sent out over 20 so far this year on the website and have had a few sent into the home, but mostly for the boys. The rest I have sold in two garage sales. Therefore I have reduced our book count by over 50 books! This will greatly help me in reaching the goal #81 of having all books yet to be read into bookcases. I think there is a small pile in the master closet and then the goal will be accomplished!

I am still actively using paperbackswap.com and it says I have saved over $200.00 on my reading habit! Which is great, but the end result is more books out of our home to reduce clutter.

If you haven't checked out the service click here Join our book club and swap used books for FREE - PaperBackSwap.com and reference mandyflash@bellsouth.net if you heard about it through this blog!

#15 National Boards

2009-07-24T17:54:00.000-07:00

This was on my list because the previous year I had paid the registration fee etc., and then being pregnant changed everything.... I was too tired to work on it at night & weekends I was trying to stay caught up on cleaning and being a mom. I did not submit my renewal application.

This year I am proud to say that the box is in the mail! Although not as rigorous as the initial certification, it still took dilligence and refleciton to complete the entries. I admit that my procrastination came into play again and I would not say it was my best work...but it is DONE!

Mark #15 complete (now I just wait for the results next Oct!)

http://www.nbpts.org/

#24 Books (one per month)

2009-07-24T17:39:00.001-07:00

Admitting, I always read more in the summer, so I am now over my one per month!
Here are my latest two!

8th Confession
I love James Patterson and enjoyed reading the latest installment in the Women's Murder Club Series! Of course it had been so long since number 7... I couldn't remember if one of the characters was engaged or not - took me awhile to figure out what I did/didn't remember. My mother-in-law lent me another Patterson: Swimsuit - so I will probably read that next.

Just Breathe
I like Susan Wiggs for a quick romantic family friendly read. It was predictable, but had a great sense of wit that made me laugh. A real quick beach read!

More #24 - Books since Jan.

2009-07-18T03:32:00.000-07:00

Here are a few more from my "at least one book per month that I want to read" goal.

Patricia Cornwell - Scarpetta Series

I have enjoyed the Scarpetta Series for many years now. Although it is often more than one year between books and sometimes I can't remember what is going on in the character's lives...it has been great to be almost caught up in the series.

Trace - Scarpetta returns to Richmond (which I enjoy reading about since my grandparents lived in Richmond for most of my life) Another page turner!

Predator - this one was a good story line as far as the mystery, but I was getting a little irritated at the characters - Lucy is acting immature and stupid, Marino seems strange - seeing a pshycologist! - Kay is out of line for being mad at Benton....but overall a great suspense book. Would have loved to get to know the victims better instead of so much drama in the regular characters' lives.

#24 Reading Books!

2009-07-17T18:51:00.000-07:00

Time for an update on #24... Doing really well with this one! Some people ask me when I have time to read....really it is because by the time I clean up a little after the kids go to bed, reading is all I have the engery to do :)

Seriously, a little over a year ago, I realized that I was losing me in all of the busy, busy family/work life. I could see "me" slipping away as all I did was care for others. I started thinking about what I was missing to see if I could fit some "me" time back into my day. I realized I hadn't been reading for enjoyment. This was something that was not too time intensive and was relaxing. I started putting the computer down, turning the t.v. off and having some dedicated reading time back! Last August during the end of my pregnancy and first two months of Jordan I read an obsene number of books. By Oct. it was trickling away due to my return to work. I added it to my list in Jan. because I didn't want to slip back into the habit of not reading!

Not in order, but here are a few I have read since my Jan. setting of #24 "At least one book I want to read per month"

James Patterson....one of my favorite authors:

SAIL - this one surprised me with its quick pace and I was really drawn into the drama of the story. It was a quick read and I loved it!

http://www.jamespatterson.com/books_sail.html

Sundays at Tiffany's - This was not a typical James Patterson and was a love story. I enjoyed the love story and the change of genre for Patterson, but I like believable stories and the "magic" in this one was a little out there.

http://www.jamespatterson.com/books_sundaysAtTiffanys.html

One of my recent favorites is My Sister's Keeper. I read it because I had seen a preview for the movie and then my office mate read it and said....it was great, but you shouldn't read it. I think she said this because I have small children and it would be too sad....but saying that was like saying "don't look in the cookie jar" - I had to read it!!!

I loved it!!! You get so engrossed in the characters and the story line.

I did not see it in the theaters, but will when it comes out on DVD. I can't watch a movie and then get motivated to read the book, so I am glad I read it first. I hope the movie stays true to the storyline!

#39 - New Dog! Puppy Love!

2009-07-14T18:29:00.000-07:00

On Feb. 14th we adopted a new dog through petfinder.com

"Jodee" was adopted through a dog rescue service that picks up dogs that might be euthanized at local shelters. On retrospect, I would probably go through PetSmart on their shelter days like we had for our other pets.

Jodee came home and was a sweet puppy...then on day two or three she became very ill. The vet said it was Parvo...something she had from the shelter or rescue service and that she had a 40-60% chance of living if she stayed at the vet and we spent around $1000.00. She also said we could try home treatment and gvie the IVs and meds at home - this would be about $300 and she would have about a 40% of survival.

We went the cheaper route and it was touch and go for a few days...then Jodee turned the corner! Now she is a rambuncious doggie who loves walking with me and playing with the boys.

#3 - update...Excercise 3x a week

2009-07-13T17:58:00.000-07:00

On my quest to be healthier and to address goals one and two... I have to get back in the habit of excercise. I have begun work on this and I am happy to report that I am averaging 5-6 days per week and have not gotten to 3x a week since Easter. I have to work on varying my workout and not getting bored, but for now I am walking.

I found that the number one time I had was either with the kids after dinner or by myself after they all go to bed. It has become "my time" where I can walk and think, or visit with my boys and watch them on their bikes. It has become part of my routine to the extent that I have been known to walk late at night or even in the rain!

Here's to a healthy life change!

The challenge will be when it gets dark earlier and gets cold. of course I am starting to struggle on the too hot days too!

Much overdue update! Goal 1 & 2

2009-07-12T18:04:00.000-07:00

Wow....somehow I fell out of the habit of updating this! I guess that is what happens with three little ones. I think I have spent some of my evenings catching up with old friends on Facebook...it can get adicting!

Update on Goal #1 Weight Loss
Well I have not really gotten anywhere significant on goal #1... I have lost about 8 lbs and keep it off, but no hugh success

Goal #2 Lap Band Surgery...
I have spent almost two years mentally considering this option... and beginning the research and building knowledge.

I have at this point made a major life desicion... I am pursuing lap band surgery. I am attending educaiton seminars and gathering necessary paperwork to have surgery with the Realize Band. This is a descision that I am very much at peace with...one that has come with educating myself about the options and committing to a lifestyle change.

I know some with think it is "cheating" or "the easy way out" ...those people do not understand that it is not easy, the band is just a tool. Just as someone needs glasses, I need band surgery to save my future health. My husband is behind me, but I think my mother still has questions unanswered. I wish she lived here and could attend the education sessions with the surgeon.

I will keep you posted. I hope to lose 50-60 lbs this first year and then the last 50-60 years.
I will be utilizing the Hickory Surgical Clinic in Hickory, NC - a Center of Excellence for Bariatric surgery. I advise anyone considering bariatric surgery to find a surgeon who offers education, support groups, follow-up care, etc. Do it right so that you have support from the experts. Any surgeon who is knowledgeable in bariatric surgery can do the surgery....but you want someone who does it wanting to support you every step of the way. I have found that team :)

http://www.hickorysurgical.com/specialties/weightloss/

Image: FreeDigitalPhotos.net

#34 Daily Devotion - new habit

2009-02-06T16:34:00.000-08:00

This week I've begun work on #34 - reading the daily devotion and scripture passages that come with our weekly bullietien from church. So far I have really enjoyed it and of course have found things that connect to my life while also exploring scripture. The purpose of having this on my list for 90 days is that I hope by the end of 90 days it will be a habit and something that I will continue. Here is the link to the brief daily devotion and scripture passages. http://www.covechurch.org/mycove

January's Book Choice - Goal #24

2009-02-01T09:45:00.000-08:00

Ok, I know you are probably thinking... is that what she reads for fun?! No, I like Nora Roberts, James Patterson, Patricia Cornwell, Janet Evanovich books for fun - the goal said to pick one book that I want to read each month. I have several around that I want to read, although they are not all the ...relax and get lost in a book type.

I chose this book since I am a fan of Suze and also starting a new year, wanted to be able to work on some of my financial goals. Really I found that almost all of the book were things I had heard before, but it does not hurt to hear them again. I am often stuck in the knowing/doing gap. I know what I need to do, but doing it does not always happen.

The one tidbit I took from the book, Although I've heard her say it before is - my money will not prosper and grow, if I am not respecting it with organization of my financial information.

I also decided since I have several Suze books, she is always putting out new ones, and I have read this one - that I will help reduce the clutter/books in this house and trade this one out on paperbackswap! YEAH

February's Book: A Thousand Splendid Suns...since I loved the Kite Runner.

Progress - Month1

2009-02-01T09:36:00.000-08:00

Well, this has not been as overwhelming as I thought it would be... I have decided that I can't start everything at once, but once something is started, then I work on continuing that item.

Complete:
Family Bowling Night
Customize Blog Headers with pics
Create Hubby's buisness blog

Ongoing:
365 photo project blog
multivitamin daily
lose weight
one new book per month
one new recipie per month
dining room clean up
donate items to charity
teach children new blessing/grace

On the Horizon:
starting the daily devotions/scripture reads from church

#28 New Blog Headers - Complete

2009-01-25T18:26:00.000-08:00

Today I read some online tutorials on how to customize my headers with my own pics. The most challenging one was the custom layout "Ocean Mist" template I use for my "Raising Tomorrow's Men" blog... I had to really work in the html section to change that pic to one of my own. I also changed the one for this blog to a pic from the web!

#36 - 2 family acitivites per month

2009-01-24T12:35:00.001-08:00

Although we do so much day to day or for one person at a time...I wanted to make sure that we had "fun" as a family each month.

Jan. - Family Fun!

Panthers Football Party - jerseys, finger foods, cheering

Bowling - goofy shoes, Thomas's 4 mph throws, Ryan running

#22 Try a new recipie monthly!

2009-01-24T12:24:00.000-08:00

Here goes trial #1 - Italian Chicken!

Verdict: possible repeat, but not a family favorite...yours might like it

Hubby - 3 stars

Me - 3 stars

Kids: hmmmm...Picky Eater Ryan would give it maybe one...he choked down the linguine.Eats Most Everything Thomas....probably 2.5 stars once he started eating it!

Note: Thomas' big aversion was that there were green beans in the sauce. He loves green beans - rare for a four year old, but he is also a "don't like my food touching on my plate" kid. The veggie mixed in was too weird - but he ate a good size portion.

The portion size was too large -says it serves four...as you can see from the pic - we served up too much as well.

12oz skinless, boneless chicken thighs (a plus since my hubby likes dark meat)

1 9oz. package frozen Italian green beans (used regular...couldn't find Italian)

1 cup fresh mushrooms quartered (deleted this item - I hate mushrooms...)

1 small onion sliced 1/4 inch thick

1 can stewed tomatoes (I used the diced with oregano and onion flavor)

1 can tomato paste

1 teaspoon Italian seasoning - dried and crushed

2 cloves minced garlic

The recipe said to cut chicken in 1 inch pieces, but since we are gone 10 hours rather than 5 or 6, I left the thighs whole to cook.Place veggies in bottom, then chicken - mix in a bowl the paste, tomatoes, garlic and seasoning. Pour over chicken - cook on low for 5-6 hours or high for 2-3 hours. Serve over fetticunni with parmasen cheese

#52 Complete - take kids bowling

2009-01-24T12:18:00.000-08:00

#52... it was a cold long weekend in Janurary, so we decided that a family outing would help break the cabin fever. Since all of us went - it counted for #36 family night too!

We had fun bowling. "The Weapon" Thomas did not throw the ball and hit anyone, Chris won a game, I won a game and Ryan had a blast! Jordan slept through it all in his carseat.

Goal #7 - Off the Wagon...quitting fast foods - do over

2009-01-10T05:25:00.001-08:00

Hmmm... do you get a "do over" in goals? I think so, otherwise with 991 days left I would be quitting on an item. Why not just say TRY AGAIN! I am concerned that if I take this attitude then I will use it as an excuse to keep quitting on a goal....but I am going to keep trying.

My demise...
not preplanning and having lunch packed for work.

Mistake #1: Unprepared....Although I left later than normal and was not in a huge rush, I forgot about lunch.

Mistake #2: Stress Level....I spent the morning working and was frustrated by discovering someone higher up than me had done something unethical.

Mistake #2: Too long.... I went until about 1:00 before taking a break and getting a snack or lunch. Therefore I was starved!

I made a poor choice and stopped at Hardee's (the closest fast food to work)

It is not like I can claim I forgot about my goal... I thought about it and went anyway!

Starting over 1/10/09 - 90 days NO FAST FOOD!

Ready, Set, Go!....

2009-01-01T18:43:00.000-08:00

I have to admit, I am excited about my list and at the same time overwhelmed at its size. It is an odd sense of satisfaction knowing that the list is actually written and that I have something concrete to check in with at least each week. It is great knowing I do have more than one year!

So here it is...new year's day and I am away from home biting at the bit to actually be home and working on some of the home ones - I did take time out to get started on a few...

Went and bought a women's multi-vitamin and starting taking them
Started my husband's blog
And before I left home... started on our disaster of a dining room (technically, I started this a few days before my 1001 days....ssshhh!!)

Things on the horizon.... picking out a book to start for this month, picking out recipe, etc. any suggestions? feel free to comment!

Happy New Year and Congrats to all of you that have started this journey on Jan. 1, 2009!

The Start! 101 in 1001 days

2008-12-28T18:16:00.000-08:00

Below is the post from my other blog that started it all... This blog will be used to track progress on my 101 in 1001! While this post will sink as new posts are added I have added the list to the sidebar.

No more New Year's Resolutions...I stopped making them a year or two ago when I realized they were always the same - lose weight, save money - and I always failed. Now I am embarking on a new adventure! For me it is like a beginners "Bucket List"

Here it goes...
[From the 101 in 1001 days project...]

The Mission:
Complete 101 preset tasks in a period of 1001 days.

The Criteria:
Tasks must be specific (ie. no ambiguity in the wording) with a result that is either measurable or clearly defined. Tasks must also be realistic and stretching (ie. represent some amount of work on my part).

Why 1001 Days?
Many people have created lists in the past - frequently simple goals such as New Year’s resolutions. The key to beating procrastination is to set a deadline that is realistic. 1001 Days (about 2.75 years) is a better period of time than a year, because it allows you several seasons to complete the tasks, which is better for organising and timing some tasks such as overseas trips or outdoor activities.

My start date: Jan. 1, 2009
My end date: Sept. 29, 2011

I will be 39! My children will be 3, 7, & 9

Key:
Not yet started
In progress
~~Complete~~

The items that are just for 30, 60, or 90 days are things I hope to build a habit of doing! Who knows they may continue after the goal is met!

MY LIST!

Health and Body:
1. Lose 100lbs.
2. Investigate Lap-Band surgery (don't freak out Mom)
3. Exercise 3x a week with 80% success rate
4. Take a multi-vitamin with 80% success rate
5. Start and end my day with a large glass of water for 30 days
6. Go back to Asheville for hot stone massage after losing at least 33.5 lbs.
7. Eliminate all fast food for 90 days
8. Complete a 5K walk
9. Get new glasses (toddler broke them 4 years ago!)
10. Go to Dentist every 6 months

Mind & Creativity:
11. Learn Italian - purchase Rosetta Stone Software
12. Attend Financial/Budget Class
13. Attend a cake decorating class (Wilton or MCC)
14. Get Notary certification to help hubby's business
15. Complete National Board Certification Renewal (NBPTS)
16. Take two photos I've taken and frame as ART (one for office and one for home)
17. Complete all three baby albums
18. Set up sewing machine to be used
19. Sew beach bag out of juice pouches
20. Create 50 greeting cards out of old cards/
21. 365 photo journal blog
22. One new recipe monthly
23. Create encourage-mints for my employees (0/13)
24. Read at least one book I want to read a month
25. Write and submit a professional article
26. Purchase Photoshop and learn how to use it
27. Post to my blog every day for 30 days
28. Learn how to customize my blog headers with pics and do it!
29. Learn one song on my guitar or donate to a student
30. Complete at least one cross-stitch project

Spirit & Wellbeing:
31. Join/Attend a Life Group from the Cove Church
32. 14 work outfits I feel confident wearing
33. Read the daily devotions and passages from church for 90 days
34. Watch sunrise on the beach
35. Take a self-defense class

Family and Children:
36. 2 Family nights per month
37. Back up photos once every 3 months
38. Teach the children 2 new blessings(currently using God is Good)
39. Get another dog - miss you Sammy!
40. Read one chapter book with the boys per month(unless it is BIG like Harry P)
41. Create and use a birthday/anniversary calendar
42. Play golf with Chris at least once - more if I like it!
43. Go Geocaching with the kids
44. Take family to circus
45. Get a family portrait done- when Jordan is a little older and I am thinner
46. Take the kids to a drive-in movie
47. Take the family for a traditional picnic on a blanket under a shade tree in a park
48. Sleep out in a tent with the boys (at home or at camper)
49. Take the boys to the Dutchess County Fair in NY
50. Go visit Nana and Dad
51. Host Thanksgiving 2010
52. Take the kids bowling
53. Kids to Disney!
54. Fingerpaint with kids

Community and Service:
55. Serve on CKC serving team
56. Cove Outreach Activity 4x year (10 total)
57. Donate 101 items to charity
58. Give blood each year (0/2)
59. Write 3 thank you notes for good service/products to strangers

Friends & Social:
60. Host a summer kick-off party
61. Host a couples game night
62. Host a holiday cookie swap girl night
63. Write one friend a letter/card per month for one year
64. Call a friend to catch up monthly for one year (0/12)
65. Host a kids summer party

Home & Cleaning:
66. Buy file cabinet
67. file one box of papers per month until finished
68. Swap out of the house at least 50 books on paperbackswap.com
69. Organize and maintain home hard drive
70. Organize and maintain work files on work laptop/jump drives
71. Set up old computer for boys' room- clean off old items
72. Make the bed every morning for 30 days
73. Get bike back in working order or give away
74. Paint back hallway/stairwell7
75. Paint office
76. Paint boys' bathroom
77. Supervise weekly cleaning of boys' room 80% of the time
78. Clean out dining room and stop using it for storage
79. Stools for kitchen counter
80. Electronic art portfolio for kids and then purge paper every 3 months
81. All books in bookcases
82. Toy clean out every six months.

Finances & Future:
83. Investigate financial possibility of shop for hubby or moving to home w/shop
84. Save monthly for home improvements (extension, fencing, pool)
85. Track all spending for 90 days
86. $1000 in emergency fund
87. Pay off all non-mortgage debt
88. Eat out lunch only 1x per week or less
89. One month's take home in addition to initial $1000 reserve
90. Reduce monthly KWH by _____ for each month compared to same month last year
91.One handmade Christmas for all but my boys
92. List one item per day for 30 days on eBay.

Love & Marriage:
93. Go to a Broadway play
94. Go to hockey game again
95. Go to Panthers game again
96. create blog for hubby's business
97. leave husband love/encouragement/thanks notes weekly 90% of the time
98. Make photo journal of childhood places for Chris and I
99. Surprise Chris with special date and babysitter

100. $5 for every goal not completed paid to local charity
101. New 101 in 1001 days list

Wish me luck! Ready to start yours?

Visit Day Zero or Google 101 in 1001 for many resources-

Tips for goal setting from the Day Zero site:
1. Be decisive. Know exactly what you want, why you want it, and how you plan to achieve it.
2. Stay Focused. Any goal requires sustained focus from beginning to end. Constantly evaluate your progress.
3. Welcome Failure. Frequently, very little is learned from a venture that did not experience failure in some form. Failure presents the opportunity to learn and makes the success more worthy.
4. Write down your goals. It clarifies your thinking and reinforces your commitment.
5. Keep your goals in sight. Review them frequently, and ensure that they are always at the forefront of your thinking.